Has anyone else found this? Or is it me? It seems to be really hard to get opinions on the topics I'm posting, are the topics I'm posting tough or boring to answer? Some advice please?
I would however like to say a big thank you to all of you that do venture on and reply. I don't know what I'd do without you.

Personally, I despise the overuse of swearing in everyday language, especially how the C word has slipped into common usage these days. What irritates me most is that there are no words left to really sum up an extreme situation or feeling, because they are all bandied about so generally. And I am glad this seems to be such a clean site, I presume the mods would come down heavy on bad language?
But I do wonder if I overuse some of the more minor swear words when writing on here, and if people think it is acceptable? I think 'bugger' is probably one of my alltime favourite words, and I do use it frequently. And I do often use the phrase 'bloody awful.' Coz some things just are, aren't they? :)
So I was just wondering, what's the strongest word you reckon is acceptable to use on here? Or are they all inappropriate, and should I mind my tongue a little? ;)

I just want to know if it is safe to let buyers from ebay come to your house and collect an item they buy off you on the ebay web site. have you or would you do that, or do you think it is not safe to do so. one of my friends have been selling on ebay for some times now and she always use the post but can not spend the cost of postage on this very item as she said it is too heavy and she needed my advice. can any of you help me out with this, i have not seen this friend for some time now because we are not living in the same town any more. what do you think, she wants to be sure of the safty before puting the item up for sale.