i am a adult with two children an my mother left me and my sister behind when we were babies. i know people dont really think of it as a bad thing when fathers do it but how do they feel when a mother does it that is what i would like to no. i also did not no who my father was so growing up was pretty difficult for me as i literally did not no who i was, i still dont to this day. being a single mother myself i could never leave my children behind whatever the circumstances, so could someone try to make light of this for me please.