I hate shopping for example as people are just shoving and pushing their way around the shop, also the other day i offered an elderly lady a hand to get across the road and she just shouted at me and called for the police,this is the state we are in when the elderly will not even accept a hand.

I dont think its anything to do with the stresses of modern life that makes people selfish and bad mannered i think its the way that either kids have been brought up or people just choose to be selfish and bad mannered. Lets face it, it doesnt cost anything to be thoughtful and have nice manners these days.

I think it is a shame as he was trying his best but in my view got pressured from the media and judges and felt he had to leave.

I feel that everything I have ever seen or heard about John Sargeant has been positive and feel that he is a really lovely man. I have never heard him say anything bad about anyone (even a polition). he knew that he wasn't a great dancer as did the rest of the country but he gave it his all week after week. The entertainment value was enormous. he stayed in longer than he should have for his dance ability BUT, he gave everyone the 'feel good' factor (those on the show and us watching) AND he was raising money for charity - children in need. I don't believe the public would have let him win. He would have had a good run because he is so nice, but us public aren't daft. There would have come time when he would have gone naturally. I feel he was bullied out of the show by the judges and their nasty comments and face pulling and by Bruce (yes it is time to go). For me after John went I lost a bit of interest. The judges seem to be rowing with each other every week. Not what I wanted to watch.

I feel it IS cheating as they are making contact (allbeit virtually) whilst still in a relationship with a real person

To me it is the next step up from looking at porn mags and porn videos. The difference is that there is feedback which is just like sending a text to another man or woman. The main thing is that it probably shows that the relationship has gone a bit stale and you need to talk to the person concerned to get to the real problem.