chops1's Opinions

I think so.

a day to many in my opinion

Ok...I might be very young and naive.But I believe that not all men are able to cheat,lie and in general be bastards.I happened to be around men haters most of my life.Hearing things lik "Girl you dont know life","They are all the same" etc...Including my own mum (though she was married to my dad for 10 years and now has been married to some one else for over 15 years),she always said that they are all liers and capeble of cheating if the right moment comes,that you can never be sure with them.I fell out with my closest friend 2 months ago,because every time me and my husband had a little agrument (we never had any serious fundomental reasons though) and I turned to her for advice or comfort in a difficult situation,she would say things like "You idealising him,he is just like everybody else","you dont really know him" ect...Which made we think a lot and anolise the situationa over and over again and I never found the proof to her words.In the end we just stopped talking.I know I love my husbands to bits but Im 100% sure in him,especially when it comes to cheating and lies.We based our relationship on trust,and talked about everything from start.I know there loads of cases when peopel live together for 20 years and then some horrible truths come out,its a fact,but is it wrong to think that you are not one of these cases?Can you not believe you partner completely?Do you think anybody is able to cheat?Is there still some happy marriges left?I believe I have one of them?Could I be blind and dellusional?

THERE ARE BAD MEN AND THERE ARE ALSO BAD WOMEN

I found an intruder in my back garden and my first instinct was to scream. Then I got angry and threw two cans of baked beans at him and hit him on the side of his face. The police said i shouldnt have done this.What woud you have done.

SCREAM FOR MY PARTNER WHO WOULD THEN KNOCK TEN COLOURS OF SHIT OUT OF HIM WHILE I RANG POLICE AND IF THE LAWS WERE AS THEY SHOULD BE THEN MY PARTNER WOULDNT GET DONE FOR IT,