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I am convinced my husband is having an affair. I have confronted him and told him what I feel and he says I am being silly. But he is acting really strange ever since he hit 40 a few weeks ago. He is my full time carer and he has suddenly started disappearing all the time some times in the day time and sometimes at night which is something he never does. I always know where he is and can normally contact him at all times. But his phone has broke he got a new one but he says that it wont read the sim so I have no way of contacting him at all Tonight he has been supposed to have been working and run out of ink so at 1130pm he went off to Tesco’s so he could get the printing done and he was going to grab a McDonalds it is now 2:34am and he is not home. I know when he does get back he will say he fell asleep in the car and has just woke up. He was very tired as he was up all night on the computer so called working. I don’t know how to prove I am right. I can’t follow him I don’t drive I never no when he is going to disappear so can’t get anyone to watch him. What would you do? Please help !

If you don't trust him what is the point of being with him. I know that you probably love him very much and have probably been with him for quite a while but how can you go on with this in your mind. You need to either learn to trust him or decide that you can't anymore and leave him. Its up to you. Your relationship cannot last if there is no trust. I know that i don't know whether he is or not but if he isn't he will start to resent you for not trusting him, it will have a really bad effect on your realtionship

My little granddaughter Lily has a real fear of old people. she has 2 nans thats she if fine with me being one of them she has 3 great grandmothers she wont even be in the same room with and one great great grandmother she just goes to bits if she see any of them. she screams and sobs her heart out and is as stiff and shakes and it is olny with old poeple we have tried everything to try and help her overcome her fear but with no luck at all Any ideas how we help her bless her she is only 2 years old

I think you need to talk to her about what it is that scares her? Is it a smell, what, she can probably articulate quite well what scares her about them so ask her. Might be something you just need to work with her on once you know the root cause

I think he is such a great artist and have really enjoyed his music for years i wouls have loved to have seen him in conert may be 15 years ago. but he just looks so strange now and ill. I don't think i would like to see him like that now. what do you think???

I wouldnt waste my money and I cetainly have no wish to see him.