My personal opinion on this topic (being a girl with both tattoos and piercings) is that it is a personal choice. I feel though on a personal level that tattoos although they are of course, permanent, are a constant reminder of the person you are and what you like. Of course when you reach your 50s/60s they are not going to look as good as they did when you were in your 20s but they remind us of the life we have lived and sometimes the things we have achieved or the people we have met. My tattoos will remind me of who I am and who I was as a young girl when I am older. I feel that you only live once and our bodies are just a means of transporting our souls to the next 'life' if you like. I don't see it as mutilation but art!

tattoo's look hot. sme peircings dont.

I have had alot of different opinions about wheather it is ok or if feelings get in the way - i know that alot of relationships do suffer from jealous men or women who have friends of the opposite sex (my bf for example)...I think some couples cope ok with having friends of the oppocite sex AND some seem to struggle to cope with the idea.....I think it is ok as long as your partner is happy with it..Have you had any bad experiences??xxx

yes. most definatly.