I have already done this, I had a little girl in October 2006 and she is living with my sister, I wasn't ready for a baby at the time and my sister and her partner can't have children, it was causing a lot of problems in their relationship and my sister was really down all of the time so it seemed like a really good solution but now i am having a baby with my fiance, who i really love and am now ready 2 have a baby, the only thing is just lately i am really wishing i had kept my daughter and it is killing me but i am stuck if i went 2 get my daughter bak it wud destroy my sister but if i don't get her bak i think i will destroy myself!! Any ideas on how 2 get out of this situation??

nice day Emma_Jane_Lowe; your opinion is very nice; and i give you a usefull vote, see you soon!

I wouldn't admit to this as i don't believe a one night stand, which was probably a druken mistake, should ruin a relationship. However if it was a proper affair i would question whether i actually wanted to be in this relationship at all.

i think no matter what the result - it is a lie and immoral - i would expect to be told - i would at least respect the other person for being truthful. besides things alway work their way out of the woodwork