against. should study each other before getting together, and once you make a commitment, you should do your best. it's easy to ignore a person, but you should always have sympathy and maintain a healthy and happy relationship.
Totally in favour of divorce. Thank goodness we live in a different world than previous generations who lived in silent misery rather than say they had made a mistake. yes it is hard on the kids, but it is also hard for them to live with unhappy parents, believe me, i know, my parents were totally mismatched but stayed together as it was the done thing. What a waste of two lives! Make the break and you both have a chance to find the right person and possibly live happily ever after.
as someone about to get married in 2 months maybe my opinion is biased but i would not be willing tho enter in to this if i thought it wouldnt work. ok - i am assuming all or most couples think it will work out but it blatently doesnt all the time. my fiance and i have had deep talks about what we each expect and want from our marriage and we both agree that we will fight for our marriage if needs be. we would both dearly hate to divorce and we hipe it never becomes an issue for us
I think people often go into marriage without any idea of the hard work that needs to be put into the relationship- so divorse is the easy way out. I think in some situations divorse is essential but marriage counselling should be tried before and it should be a last resort. When children are involved it is incredibly traumatic for them to be involved in this kind of dispute.Any marriage will have lows- they need a lot of hard work and dedication to work through them: I feel too many people are ready to give up at the first hurdle and are not prepare to admit that their fairytale life isn't realistic.
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