I know so many people who feel that the life they have is not what they want but they feel trapped and dont know how to change it. They constantly go on about how they could have been this or that but seem afraid to make that gigantic step into the unknown. Are you like that?
i can honestly say that i am the most contented i have ever been, i have changed career a few times over the years and never did what i really wanted to do, but i am at a time in my life where i have stopped yearning for things that aren't going to happen and take up new challenges. our family have had many hurdles to overcome through the years as i'm sure many other families have, i think now we are fingers crossed settled.
Yes sometimes, I probably would have done things slightly different, but I am stuck with the life i have, i wish I had been more ambitious in my younger days.The only things I wouldn';t change though are my kids.
yes very much so. only now my children don't need me so much, i've decided to start training for the career i really want. after no one else can make the changes for us, can they?
With the benefit of hindsight i can see where i went wrong and took wrong paths in the past..my life could be a lot better if it werent for those mistakes,but we do what seems the right thing to do at the time,so regrets are pointless>I know what changes I would like to see in my life now,but my health problems mean that for now they are not a possibility,just a distant goal....in the mantime i just do what i can on a daily basis to make my life as pleasant and positive an experience as possible.
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