I think that your funeral should be something that you would have wanted not what the mourners want. So if you want some up tempo music played then so be it, it doesn't have to be a sad affair.

The day though gavest God has ended. It is moving makes people cry then they will feel better quicker and realise their lives are also but a 'day' and so make the most of it.

It is important, I think people have become lazy and can't be bothered with anything anymore. Also speaking, too many abbreviations and americans, gotten is the main one that irks me.

spelling should be important, but it doesnt seem to be. my kids don't seem to get their spellings checked often at primary school.