We al have our little beauty secrets but what is it that you find attractive when you first meet a person? is it their physical attributes; the way they dress or talk? I find that people with open, honest faces and ready smiles are always the ones i want to be friends with.

A guy who can crack me up when I first meet them is really attractive. Having a sense of fun and kindness is also really attractive along with spontaneity, someone who will just grab my hand and kick leaves about or jump in puddles and has a big cheeky grin. I don't really have a 'type' physically and looks eventually fade, although a guy who is taller than me and carries themselves well is always a plus. So is politeness, intelligence and creativity. That is a big old list, haha. I think it's down to that inital spark and a solid friendship more than anything else. Arrogance and/or clinginess would have me running for the hills though.

When Im thinking about it, first thing is shopping and entertainment. Just give myself a nice day. :)

Tons of things! The sensible option would be to pay off some of my student debt. The less sensible would be to take friends out for lunch and then go shopping and buy loads of stuff I don't need or a plane ticket to somewhere fun. Then the less shopping orientated part of me can think of a hundred charities that need it more than me, only I'd buy something specific with it, rather than it going on admin, or I'd help fund a local community project- something that would do good for people who need it. So yeah- lots of options. Maybe even just a fridge full of ice cream. :o)

Always! Especially when they look grumpy or I'm in rush hour and everyone looks miserable! It's something so simple, and connects us to people we otherwise would have walked past. When I worked in shops, I'd say hi and smile at everyone that came in. I know when a stranger smiles at me it brightens up my day a bit, and you might be the only person to make a small amount of contact with a lonely person that day. It costs nothing, and small acts of kindness are often the most powerful. :oD

yes why not ? If a feel it's a nice person, a smile is a little gift